Can Past Life Therapy be
a substitute for Near-Death Experiences?
by Anubhuti Rattan Maini, M.A. CHt. PLt. Regd. Ht.
by Anubhuti Rattan Maini, M.A. CHt. PLt. Regd. Ht.
Experienced
Therapists talk about the observation that after visiting past lives the client
overcomes death anxiety. Dr. Raymond Moody and Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross have
done extensive research in the field of Near Death Experiences. Though not the
same, past life regressions and Near Death Experiences have some similarities
and both are claimed to alleviate death anxiety.
Near Death Experiences are
experiences of people who are declared dead by the doctors but come alive after
some time. This phenomenon is experienced by one in thousands of people. Past
life Therapy on the other hand can be done on anyone who wishes to undergo it.
Each one of us lives with
the fear of death in some form or the other. If it is not the fear of our death
then it is the fear of our loved ones’ death that torments us. The fear of
death largely stems from firstly, the fear of ceasing to exist or the finality
of death; secondly, the fear of a painful death and of being left all alone during
the final moments; thirdly, the fear of losing one’s loved ones and; lastly the
fear of the unknown (Rattan, 2007).
The key to “fighting” this
fear seems to be to accept death first. Dr. Paul T.P. Wong (1998)
has suggested the following Pathways to death acceptance:
·
Life review
·
Self-acceptance
·
Religious/spiritual beliefs
·
Embracing one’s own life
·
Death education
Past Life Therapy and Near Death Experiences
Past
life therapy under hypnotherapy uses not only the visualization of one’s own
death in a past life but also the life review. The client also realizes that his/her
loved ones will be with him/her in some form
in the other births, and thus he/she need not worry about losing them. Another
fear which may get addressed by Past Life Therapy is that of the unknown. Under
hypnosis the client is able to see life after death and thus the process of
death and a glimpse of life after death may alleviate the fear of the unknown
in this regard. It is also reported by the clients that when they are in the
light after their death they feel very peaceful and completely pain-free thus,
their death anxiety actually transforms to a sacred love for death. They
report, that now they know what death is going to be like, they find worrying
about it unnecessary and are able to live a more fulfilling life.
Near
Death experience has been reported to have a healing effect on the person
(Moody, 1976). However this is an experience which cannot be induced and thus
is experienced by only a few. Past Life Therapy which has a lot of similarities
in terms of the experience and visions witnessed by people experiencing it may
be used as a substitute to bring this healing capacity of Near Death
Experiences to the common man who may not have had a Near Death Experiences
otherwise. The author attempts to see if Past Life Therapy is really effective
and thus a worthwhile mode of treatment to reduce and/or alleviate death
anxiety altogether.
Every
Past Life Regression is different. Thus it is difficult to generally give an
outline of a classic Past life Regression. Yet usually, when a person goes
into his/her Past Life it is usually not at the time of death. The person goes
through the entire life span jumping from one significant scene to the next.
Finally, the person reaches the death scene. The person may feel a lot of grief
due to the fact that he/she is about to “lose” their loved ones. Yet the moment
they die in the past life they report a sense of peace and calm. They may
“float” up to the ceiling and then look down upon their body, their loved ones,
doctors, etc. in the room; they may float to them and bid their farewell. They
experience “No time and no space,” thus, the moment they think about someone
who may be physically in another country; they find themselves in front of the
person they had just thought about. They soon spot a brilliant white light
usually above them.
They
get attracted to the light and float up to it. There they may find someone has
come to welcome them – it could be a loved one who has passed on, or an
“angel”, or his/her Spirit Guide, or a being of light or even what is God to
them (Jesus Christ, Lord Ram, Mother Mary, etc.). The clients have reported
that they experience immense unconditional love in this light. The being then
takes them lovingly into the light. They then go to a place where there is a
huge screen or Panorama of a kind. Then along with the being they view scenes
of their life that just ended, as they flash on the screen. The being is
uncritical or completely non-judgmental. The client makes any comments that are
made. They say they get to feel the effect of their actions while viewing the
scenes as not only do they live those scenes but also the effect it had on the
others around them. The being only suggests what could have been done
differently when asked by the client. The therapist guides the client to do a
life review and the reason why his mind took him to this specific Past Life.
Often
at this point great learning takes place both for the client and the therapist
as this is the point which explains what is causing a problem (of whatever
significance it may be) in the client’s current life. The learning then is
brought into the current life. The immediate effects of a Past Life Regression
are the realization that our loved ones are going to be with us in our life
over and over again as we continue to reincarnate. Their roles in our life may
change but they usually are present. It is also that the client’s death anxiety
goes down sharply. They also make significant changes in life, they may become
less abusive and more tolerant with others; they may express their love for
others more, etc.
Now
let’s see what a classic Near Death Experience is as per the research done by
Dr. Raymond Moody (1976, 1978): A man is dying and, as he reaches the point
of greatest physical distress, he hears himself pronounced dead by his doctor.
He begins to hear an uncomfortable noise, a loud ringing or buzzing, and at the
same time he feels himself moving very rapidly through a long tunnel. After
this, he suddenly finds himself outside of his own physical body, but still in
the immediate physical environment, and he sees his own body from a distance,
as though he is a spectator. He watches the resuscitation attempt from this
unusual vantage point and is in a state of emotional upheaval.
After
a while, he collects himself and becomes more accustomed to his odd condition.
He notices that he still has a “body,” but one of a very different nature and
with very different powers from the physical body he had left behind. Soon
other things begin to happen. Others come to meet and to help him. He glimpses
the spirits of relatives and friends who have already died, and a loving, warm
spirit of a kind he has never encountered before – a being of light – appears
before him. This being asks him a question, non-verbally, to make him evaluate
his life and helps him along by showing him a panoramic, instantaneous playback
of the major events of his life. At some point he finds himself approaching
some sort of barrier or border, apparently representing the limit between
earthly life and the next life.
Yet,
he finds that he must go back to the earth, that the time for his death has not
yet come. At this point he resists, for by now he is taken up with his experiences
in the after life and does not want to return. He is overwhelmed by intense
feelings of joy, love, and peace. Despite his attitude, though, he somehow
reunites with his physical body and lives. Later he tries to tell others, but
he has trouble doing so. In the first place, he can find no human words
adequate to describe these unearthly episodes. He also finds that others scoff,
so he stops telling other people. Still, the experience affects his life
profoundly, especially his views about death and its relationship to life.
There
are many similarities between the Near Death Experiences and those of the Past
Life Regression. The various similarities are:
· In
both, the individual finds himself out of the physical body but in the
immediate physical environment.
·
He
sees his body from a distance as if he is a spectator.
· He
looks on as the others make last attempts to revive him and he finds himself in
a state of emotional upheaval.
· He
notices that he still has a “body,” but it is of a different nature and has
different powers than the physical body. He is able to float and travel long
distances instantly, he communicates non-verbally by exchange of thoughts
directly.
· “Others”
appear before him. He also sees a loving warm spirit - “being of light” who
helps in evaluating his life by showing him a panoramic instantaneous playback
of the major events of his life.
·
He
is overwhelmed by intense feelings of joy, love, and peace.
·
He
can find no human words adequate to describe these experiences.
· The
experience affect his life profoundly, especially his views about death and its
relationship to life and thus he begins to appreciate life better.
Since
there are so many similarities, the author proposes that since Near Death
Experiences are experienced by few and they don’t get to choose to experience
it, it simply happens to them, then for those, who are not “chosen” but want to
experience it Past Life Therapy can be a ready answer, for those who are willing
to try it. Also since Near Death Experiences have proven results in reducing
Fear of death (Moody 1976, 1978; Kubler-Ross, 1969), then essentially due to
the similarities, the Past Life Therapy may also have a healing effect. The
advantage being that a person can visit their Past Life more than once, which
is not guaranteed in Near Death Experiences. In other words, the author carried
out a study to try to see if Past Life Therapy can be an easy alternative to
healing obtained by chance by Near Death Experiences and if this is possible,
then the study has tried to introduce this option to the society at large for
those who would like to utilize its benefits.
References
Kubler-Ross, E.
(1969). On Death And Dying.
New York: Macmillian.
Moody, R. A. (1976). Life
After Life. New York: Bantam Books.
Moody, R. A. (1978). Reflections
on Life After Life. New York: Bantam Books.
Rattan, A. (2005). Use
of Hypnotherapy to Reduce Death Anxiety. Unpublished Dissertation work.
Rattan, A. (2007).
“The Question about Death and Death Anxiety”. Hypnogenesis.
Wong, P. T. P.
(1998). “Spirituality, meaning, and successful aging”. In P. T. P. Wong &
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meaning: A handbook of psychological research and clinical applications.
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